banging, skeet, making love, sex, intercourse?

But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion."I Corinthians 7:9

Sexxxxx.
Everyone knows what it is and a lot of them are doing it.
I guess i still dont understand it at all. Were in highschool, and i can guarantee you that 95 percent of the people youre "bestfriends" now you wont ever talk to after graduation.
I think that sex should be a sacred, secretive thing that a couple decides when theyre commited to eachother completely. Not when youre in highschool when most likely your boyfriend/girlfriend at the time wont even be in your life after highschool. Why give something so valuable to someone that you wont even remember in 20 years?
Now, i'm not trying to be a hypocrite or anything like that at all. At one point i thought that having sex while in highschool wasnt a big deal; that everyone was doing it and since everyone that was someone (popular) was doing it, than i should probably do it too. And i used to think it was so cool and it would make me popular if i was like all those other girls and boys.





The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." I Corinthians 7:3-5








I'm realizing that, thats not the case at all. i am so happy that im saving myself. Sex doesent just affect someone physically; sex comes with so many emotions and i just dont know.
Ive been told it feels really good and all that jazz, but i just dont think its worth it to do something so drastic at such a young age, ya know?

And plus God always factors in to this. His words and ways matter most to me then feeling "popular" and feeling "good" for a couple of hours.